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 | Books: Maggie Scarf book:
"Secrets, Lies, Betrayals The Body/Mind Connection How the Body Holds the Secrets of a Life, and How to Unlock Them |
PBSP is one of the two "Power Therapies"
best selling author Maggie Scarf writes about in her most recent book released by Random House in 2004. In the final three chapters, entirely about PBSP, Ms. Scarf describes her own personal experience attending a PBSP workshop led by Albert Pesso and
fully narrates a another woman's "structure". With incredible detail -- in her own inimitable style, supported by her comprehensive understanding of PBSP, she leads the reader to practically see the PBSP session -- brilliantly highlighting its effectiveness. In the Epilogue Maggie follows up with in this woman to see how her PBSP experience effected her life.

Maggie Scarf's book may now be purchased directly from the International
PBSP office. The cost is $17 plus Priority Mail shipping and handling of $5 to any
U.S. address, and $10 for Global Priority. Click here to order. added Oct 1, 2004 
June 29th, 2004 Maggie Scarf
wrote in to tell us that her book has been submitted for a Pulitzer Prize and is
a selection of the Book of the Month Club! 
Maggie Scarf was
interviewed on the Diane Rehm Show which broadcasts over National Public Radio
on June 2nd, 2004 from Radio Station WAMU (http://www.wamu.org/dr/). Emailing Update of June 1, 2004: PBSP
on Diane Rehm Show on NPR Wednesday June 2nd 11:06am During the interview about her book Maggie said, "Psychomotor [PBSP], which I describe, is a smaller group [than EMDR] and yet I have seen fabulous things happen there. There was one international financier who had been through a complete psychoanalysis -- had been through every kind of therapy you could ever mention and he said, 'this is like speed dialing to the unconscious', and he's a devotee of that. I've been through that and that's a whole other approach".
Also on June 2nd,
there was a large ad in the New York Times. To see it in PDF
format please click on this link: ScarfNYT.PDF. [what
is a PDF?]
Elle Magazine's May, 2004 issue (which is now on news stands and in book stores) has an interview with Maggie Scarf
in which she discusses the two primary therapy processes that she explores in
her book, EMDR and PBSP. (http://www.elle.com/) added 4/18/04
New Reviews added
3/30/04 “Maggie Scarf is brilliant, a writer with
foresight who has always been ahead of the pack, and she writes in language
people can relate to. Her humanistic way of looking at life shines thru in this
astonishing book about how the past resides in our bodies–and what we can to
do about it.” --Nancy Friday, author of My Secret Garden and Women on Top “This is a book that puts body, mind and spirit
together, and helps dispel the ghosts. Maggie provides a deep sense of hope with
the idea that we might look at these early traumas in our lives and find a way
to be healed of the fight-or-flight impulses that sometimes drive us away from
the very things we want most in our lives–friendship, warmth, loving
relationships with those nearest us, and, finally, the answers that were hidden
by the scars that cover those secrets present in most every one of us.” --Judy Collins "This book is a for-real treasure map. It
leads us through a lot of pain and trauma to a secret, buried world of feeling
locked inside the human body--and shows us the terrific reward possible at the
end. With her characteristic compassion and erudition, Maggie Scarf is a superb
guide to radically new approaches to healing trauma and betrayal. I have been a
patient on the path Scarf follows here, and this is exciting, ground-breaking
material, beautifully presented." --Augustus Napier, author, The Family Crucible and The Fragile Bond |
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from the Random House page on this book http://www.randomhouse.com/catalog/display.pperl?0679457038:
| | Written by Maggie Scarf
|  | | Category: Psychology & Psychiatry | | Imprint: Random House | | Format: Hardcover, 368 pages | | Pub Date: May 2004 | | Price: $25.95 | | ISBN: 0-679-45703-8 | | Also available as an eBook. |
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ABOUT THIS BOOK: Reading Maggie Scarf's groundbreaking new book could change your life. In Secrets, Lies, Betrayals, the bestselling author of Unfinished Business, Intimate Partners, and Intimate Worlds brilliantly explores how the body holds on to painful episodes from the past including secrets we may be keeping even from ourselves and how we can release them to live freer, healthier lives. The body has a unique memory system, in which early trauma and deeply buried feelings become woven into the fabric of our physical being. Certain events can trigger these body memories, which may then manifest themselves symptomatically as persistent anger, mood swings, headaches, muscle tension, and fatigue. These echoes from the past also cause destructive patterns in our lives and relationships. Why does a beautiful, successful woman like Claudia seek out abusive, explosively tense relationships in which she is forced to hide the truth about herself? Why does the presence of a strange woman's name in her husbands cell phone directory make Karen feel physically ill, to the point where she cannot get through her daily life? And why does the author herself experience painful physical symptoms when she wrestles with contradictory memories of her mother? Exploring these and other personal narratives, Scarf reveals how the body, through its neurobiological systems, retains some of life's most important experiences and describes how new power therapies, such as reprocessing and psychomotor, have had immediate results where traditional therapies have had a lower success rate. Grounded in recent breakthroughs in mind/body science and drawing on Scarf's personal experiences, this book is a masterpiece of research, analysis, and insight into the human psyche, and into human life. From the Hardcover edition.
Amazon.com's German website for ordering this book: http://www.amazon.de/exec/obidos/ASIN/0679457038/qid=1080176330/sr=1-1/ref=sr_1_8_1/028-8819949-4414110 Order from Amazon: http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/tg/detail/-/0679457038/qid= 1080176227/sr=1-2/ref=sr_1_2/104-2832888-2531922?v=glance&s=books From the cover: About the Author MAGGIE SCARF, the author of three highly
acclaimed bestsellers --Unfinished Business, Intimate Partners, and Intimate
Worlds -- is a senior fellow at the Bush Center in Child Development
and Social Policy at Yale University and a member of the advisory board of the
Poynter Fellowship in Journalism, also at Yale. She is currently a contributing
editor to The New Republic and has served on the Oxygen/Markle Pulse
Advisory Board; she also served as a member of the advisory board of the
American Psychiatric Press for a decade. Scarf has been a Ford Foundation
fellow, a Nieman fellow in journalism at Harvard University, an Alicia Patterson
Foundation fellow, has twice been a fellow of the Center for Advanced Study in
the Behavioral Sciences at Sanford University, and is a grantee of the Smith
Richardson Foundation, Inc. She has received several national Media awards
from the American Psychological Foundation. She lives in Connecticut with
her husband and is the mother of three daughters. 
 "Maggie Scarf
has given us a book with the force of revelation. Secrets, Lies, Betrayals shows
how our bodies store the painful memories of our past. This is a book that will
make you see yourself and your whole life in a new way." –Susan Cheever, author of My Name is Bill
"The mix of theory and story is one of the things Maggie Scarf does so
well. I found the book compelling, convincing and, in a good way,
shocking." –Betty Rollin, author of First, You Cry and Last Wish
"Here are the mind’s various activities, possibilities, given the
corporeal home that nature has offered it–a searching, knowing exploration of
how our thoughts, experiences, persist in our neuro-muscular life, assert
themselves in how we live (with whom, under which circumstances, and with what
instincts of mind and heart). Here is mind connected to body–and done so with
the help of a documentary effort: the author herself, and others she has come to
know, enable us, through their personal narratives, to understand human
psychology, its pleasures and its darker side, as an aspect of the physical
existence each of us has, experiences." –Robert Coles, M.D., Professor of Psychiatry and Medical Humanities, Harvard
Medical School
"Maggie Scarf's thesis–that in painful circumstances the body has a mind
of its own–is both enlightening and liberating in that if offers a way out.
This is characteristic of her work. She is alert enough to spot a problem that
no one else has seen, and generous enough to provide a remedy. That her writing
is as clear as daylight is icing on the cake." –Roger Rosenblatt
"Maggie Scarf has an extraordinary gift for sharing with the reader her own
intimate memories and thoughts, those of the person whose story she tells, while
simultaneously discussing the neurobiology of memory, in readily understood
terms. The intertwining of her narrative with those she skillfully interviews is
captivating. She is insightful and incisive. Her picture of family trauma and
violence reveals its pervasiveness and inaccessibility. This is truly a
remarkable tour de force, a book that one cannot put down." –Carol Nadelson, M.D.
from the book cover and from Powell's
Books, http://www.powells.com/cgi-bin/biblio?inkey=62-0679457038-0:  Publisher Comments: Reading Maggie Scarf's groundbreaking new book
could change your life. In Secrets, Lies, Betrayals, the
bestselling author of Unfinished Business, Intimate Partners, and Intimate
Worlds brilliantly explores how the body holds on to painful episodes from
the past -- including secrets we may be keeping even from ourselves -- and how
we can release them to live freer, healthier lives. The body has a unique memory system in which
early trauma and deeply buried feelings become woven into the fabric of our
physical being. Certain events can trigger these body memories, which may
then manifest themselves symptomatically -- as persistent anger, mood swings,
headaches, muscle tension, and fatigue. These echoes from the past also
cause destructive patterns in life and relationships. Why does a beautiful, successful woman like
Claudia seek out abusive, explosively tense relationships in which she is forced
to hide the truth about herself? Why does the presence of a strange
woman's name in her husband's cell phone directory make Karen feel physically
ill, to the point where she cannot get through her daily life? and why does the
author herself experience painful physical symptoms when she wrestles with
contradictory memories of her mother? Exploring these and other personal
narratives, Scarf reveals how the body, through its neurobiological systems,
retains some of life's most important experiences -- and she describes how new
power therapies, such as reprocessing and psychomotor, have had immediate
results where traditional therapies have had a lower success rate. Grounded in recent breakthroughs in mind/body
science and drawing on Scarf's personal experiences, this book is a masterpiece
of research, analysis, and insight into the human psyche, and into human life. |
Other books by Maggie Scarf from the Random House Author spotlight page, http://www.randomhouse.com/author/results.pperl?authorid=27048:  | Intimate Partners: Patterns in Love and Marriage Written by Maggie Scarf Paperback, 480 pages March 1988 The compelling national bestseller that pushes beneath the surface of marriage to explore the depths of true intimacy. "Anyone involved in, embarking on, or yearning for, an intimate relationship should buy, borrow or steal INTIMATE PARTNERS." New Woman |  |  | Intimate Worlds Written by Maggie Scarf Trade Paperback, 508 pages February 1997 "Scarf knows the intricacies of the family structure and, even better, knows how to write well about them. In Intimate Worlds, as in most of our lives, family is riveting, white-knuckle stuff."
--The Washington Post Book World
In Intimate Worlds, bestselling author Maggie Scarf takes on the most important, and most universal, subject... Read More |  |  | Unfinished Business Written by Maggie Scarf Trade Paperback, 640 pages January 1995 Also available as a paperback.
|  |  | Unfinished Business Written by Maggie Scarf Paperback November 1986 Also available
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Other reviews and comments on Maggie Scarf Books: Publisher Comments: "Scarf knows the intricacies of the family structure and, even better,
knows how to write well about them. In Intimate Worlds, as in most of our lives,
family is riveting, white-knuckle stuff." --The Washington Post Book World In Intimate Worlds, bestselling author Maggie Scarf takes on the most
important, and most universal, subject of her distinguished career: the family.
As the first social organization that we each encounter, the family is where we
learn the most fundamental and enduring lessons of our lives. Yet for too many,
those lessons turn out to be painful, perplexing, and emotionally crippling. In
this luminous, beautifully written book, Scarf brilliantly examines the complex
ways in which families create their own intimate rules and patterns of
interaction, and how by understanding these dynamics we can each improve the
quality of our own family life. At the book's core are the stories of four fascinating families and the very
different ways they enact the central issues of family life: power and intimacy;
conflict and love; individuality and group identification. Spanning the spectrum
of family health from dysfunctional through optimal, these families grapple with
serious substance abuse, sexual problems, difficulties with attachment and
nurturance, eating disorders, and buried resentments that surface generation
after generation. As Maggie Scarf probes the motives and meanings of these
compelling dramas, she reveals the essential truths of how families shape human
identity. Combining lucid analysis with warm human understanding, Intimate
Worlds is a major work that both clarifies and deepens our knowledge of family
relationships. "Wrought with care and commitment, it is meticulously researched and
will, I think, serve as a valuable resource for families struggling to
understand themselves." --Los Angeles Times Review: How families shape each member's expectations, patterns of emotional reactivity,
self-acceptance or self-hatred is the theme of Scarf's enlightening report.
Combining interpretive analysis and case studies, and distilling a large body of
research and clinical experience, the book should be as popular as her
bestselling studies of marriage (Intimate Partners) and women and depression
(Unfinished Business). Scarf found that many families are gripped by unconscious
fantasies, unquestioned assumptions that result in the playing out of old
agendas derived from parents' own pasts. She explores the maladaptive strategies
that many families employ, such as scapegoating (sacrificing one family member
to keep the family's operating system intact) and emotional triangling, an
evasive maneuver to deflate escalating tensions in a two-way relationship. Scarf
identifies five types of families, ranging from severely disturbed to polarized
to optimal, and she organizes her material around this framework, a scale that
was devised by psychiatrist W. Robert Beavers in the mid-1970s. Special
attention is paid to the effects on a family of alcoholism, eating disorders,
incest and sexual infidelity. Included are ``tasks,'' or therapeutic exercises,
designed to strengthen familial bonds. This is a resource for families trying to
improve communication, to deal with anger, frustration, ambivalence. Author
tour. (Oct.) Publishers Weekly, 08/28/1995*
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